I’ve been talking to an incredibly charismatic guy recently, the type of guy who picks up girls within minutes of a conversation. He told me, “Michael, girls don’t care about what you say. They care about why you’re saying it.”

我最近在和一位非常有魅力的男士聊天。他屬于那種只要和女孩子談論幾分鐘就能夠泡到女孩的人。他告訴我一個非常重要的觀點,他跟我說,邁克爾,女孩子不在乎你說什么,她們關心的是你為什么會這么說。